Key to Success in Dating Thai Girls?

Thai girls are considered one of the most beautiful women on the planet. No wonder many men want to date them. It is a well known fact that places like Bangkok or Phuket draw thousand of men each year in search for a Thai girl. No matter is you decide to go overseas to meet your match or want to date Thai girl next door there is a number of things you should know before you do the first move.

- First of all, remember that no matter what you’ve heard or seen, Thai girls are by nature shy and conservative as far as man/woman relationships are concerned. There are places in Bangkok and Phuket where these rules don’t apply but we’re assuming that your not there.

Taking this into account do not insinuate or expect getting laid after the first date.

- If you care about the girl, start off by inviting her for a coffee or lunch. This way you will gain trust and have a chance to meet the girl before you suggest ‘a real date’.

- Avoid bringing up her Thai origin at first date. It won’t do any good. Stick to neutral topics, ask her general questions about her likes and dislikes, family etc.

- If the family subject comes up tell her that you have a lot of respect for your parents and would love to meet hers at some point in the future. But beware - if you don’t plan to be with the girl long-term, don’t let her introduce you to her parents. It is a commitment and a humiliation for the girl if you leave her soon after. In Thailand family bonds are really strong and children are always full of respect for their parents.

- Thai women look for independent, confident man that can give them a sense of security. Look sharp, presentable, but don’t overdo it.

- Don’t try to impress her too much at the first date. Most of those women have been exposed to western culture before and have heard and seen it all.

- Show up on time. If you can’t, let her know in advance. This way you show your Thai lady respect.

- Never talk down on her culture. Remember that Asians generally are proud people and will not appreciate this kind of remarks. Keep in mind that you deal with an individual not a nation. If you have certain political, economical or social views, my advice would be to keep them to yourself at the first date. Many men make this mistake and fail, time after time, after time.

- It usually doesn’t hurt to buy your date a small, inexpensive gift. Thai women like this kind of gestures as long as it does not mean an obligation.

- If you have bad habits like smoking, drinking, burping, first date is not a place and time to let that show.

What do you get in return?

First of all you have a privilege of dating one of the most beautiful women in the world. They are also great, fun company to the man. Thai women are traditionally faithful, honest, take great care of the home and know how to please their man. If you read this you probably already know this anyway. Be respectful, kind, make sure to keep in mind these simple rules that we discussed earlier and you will be successful in dating Thai girls.